Two years ago was a new beginning for me. Many of you don’t know that I was at the lowest point that I have ever been in my life, and I needed something to help get me back to positive, ambitious self again. I called on God and I didn’t expect for him to act so fast. I truly believe that God answers prayers, but only at the time He knows is best. The best time may not always be immediate. He comes when you’re ready. Apparently, I was ready to receive whatever He was going to give to me. I went to bed one night and had a dream that I knew I would be the only one able to interpret the way He wanted me to interpret it. In the dream, I was stuck in traffic on the freeway on my way to a business lunch appointment. While being at a complete stop on the freeway, I was thinking about going back to school and earn my masters degree in business. My full time job has tuition reimbursement, so I wouldn’t have to worry about needing money to pay for it (This was interesting to me, because I never planned on going back to school. I was doing well in my career, approaching almost a decade at that place, and my business does really well when I work it). While I was thinking this in my head, my dream switched to me still being on the freeway, but I’m in the emergency lane on a bicycle. I’m not peddling, but I’m kicking with my feet down this empty lane.
I’ll tell you how I interpreted that dream at the end of this blog, but a less than a month later, I started my first class at the University of Phoenix in the MBA program. A couple of months later, I attended a multi-cultural business expo and networking event. I got a lot of contacts and had another vision pop in my head; start a Black chamber of commerce. I made a phone call and acted on it. I’ll get to what has happened since then at the end of this blog as well. I wanted to start off with those experiences to set up what came to my mind today as I was driving home from church. Pastor’s sermon on prayer didn’t directly spark my thinking, but possibly just the events over the weekend and finishing it off with a good church service helped my thinking process. I was thinking about people I have met along my journey, and how amazed I am at the people who take this life for granted. Not only do you not know when your journey will end here on Earth, but you only have one chance. Most of us are caught up in the day to day hustle and bustle, and not think about your purpose here or really give the goals you want to achieve some real thought. To me, not striving to live up to your full potential is unacceptable. Being content is just plain lazy and selfish. One of Jesus’ parables talks about three individuals given talents. Two put their talents to work and reaped significant benefits, while the third did not put his talent to work. Instead, he hid his and ended up having his talent taken away and was thrown to the outer darkness. We all are given different gifts and talents. We have one life to put these talents to work, we will go from ‘being faithful in a few things, to being master over many.’ However, if we don’t . . . . well you know how the rest of parable goes. You may think this is harsh, but that’s reality for you. So MAKE YOUR JOURNEY COUNT! You are not put here just to live a mediocre life. You can’t let the drama come in to your life and discourage you from your dreams. The definition of life is simply drama mixed with opportunity. The drama comes to give you the experience and strength to receive the gifts coming to you. Settling for what it is easy to avoid the drama prevents you from being ready for what life can really be for you. One of my favorite quotes from Jim Rohn says:
“Don’t wish it were easier. Wish you were better. Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenges. Wish for more wisdom.”Becoming better with more skills and wisdom comes by overcoming the challenges and problems that come in to your life. I remember when I was 11 years old and tried contact football for the first time. I was the smallest guy on the team and I felt like I had the smallest pads as well, because I entered late. Throughout the season, I was scared of being hit because I saw how hard others got hit. So I took all the easy routes I could when I was in the game. However, after I got hit a few times, and took some pretty good ones from kids twice my size, playing got easier, and I began to have more fun and stopped being scared. Our second to last game, I underplayed a receiver on a play and he received a long pass, I had to run as fast as I could to get back to him and tackled him from behind. He was about 10 yards from a touchdown. A touchdown was what they needed to come back and win the the game. The next play, a pass was thrown to other side of the field from where I was, and I ran to that side and made the game-winning tackle. I was hauled up by my assistant coach and took took down the sideline to allow everyone to give me a pat on the back and tell me, “great job!” The next game, I intercepted a pass and got the call to stay in the game to be at running back. The first play from scrimmage was for me and I took it half the field for my first touchdown. I recognition I received after that play was so much that I got choked up and broke out in to tears of joy. I would have never received that if I kept playing scared.
How many of us are playing scared? How many of us are scared to get hit in life? We need those hits to make us stronger. We need those hits so life becomes easier. When you get hit, you simply get back up, dust yourself, and you’re more prepared for the next hit. If you’re like me, you’re curious to see how much harder of hit you can take. You want it to come! You ever see a football game and see someone take a brutal hit, and they bounce up fast and pound their chest? That’s the adrenaline and attitude we need throughout our life. Because the harder the hit we take, the more prepared we are and even more excited, because now we know we can play harder and take us up a notch! That’s the main key right there, though if you haven’t caught on yet. If you have a challenge in life, MAKE IT COUNT! What I mean by that is overcome that challenge. Don’t run away from yet. Take it, learn and grow from it and you are ready for the next step in life. Whether anything good or bad happens in your life, MAKE IT COUNT! Don’t ever let the experiences in your life go unrecognized. The combination of all the challenges and achievements you have in your life are designed to get you to the next step, but you have to learn and grow from each of them. You have to learn why you have these experiences and gain all you can from them, and keep moving no . . . . matter . . . . what. You may not think anything is happening at all, but keep grinding, and stay on the path. The book of Proverbs says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. Believe in Him, and He will guide your path.” Tell Him what you want and let him guide you. You keep working towards your goals and don’t let anything get you down. Some times it may feel like it’s not going anywhere, but there’s a process you have go through. There’s a combination that must be unlocked, and you are going through life getting one number at a time. Some experiences may not get you anywhere, but these same experiences lead to something that does give you exactly what you needed. The New Testament tells of a story about a young boy who is possessed. The disciples did everything they could to heal the boy, but they couldn’t do it. The panicked mother saw Jesus and called on Him for help. She said to Jesus that if He could heal your possessed son, she would be so grateful. So Jesus went over the boy and put his hand on him. The boy suddenly went stiff for a while as if he were dead. Then he opened his eyes and got up, and he was healed. Jesus then said to the mother that it wasn’t a matter if he could heal her son, it was a matter if she believed. Sometimes your experiences may seem like they didn't take you anywhere and your life may seem like it's dull or stiff. Folks, you just have to have the faith that it will be done. If you believe within yourself and trust in God, you can reach your dreams. Don’t let this life slide away from without accomplishing what you want out of this life. It’s yours! It’s waiting for you! You just have to let go and get ‘hit’ every now and then, but MAKE IT COUNT! Get up and know you that life is going to be a little easier now. You have more skills and more wisdom to conquer the next one.
I had financial issues, but I learned from them and will be debt free very soon. I made it count. I had a marriage fail, but I learned and gained from that experience and I now I have an amazing woman in life. I would have never been able to be in a relationship with Michelle if I didn’t let my past mold me and I corrected myself. I made it count. Now back to my dream. How I interpreted that dream is that I have opportunities ahead of me. I have a clear lane that I can take and pass everyone else that is stuck in traffic because I’m on a bicycle and can ride the emergency lane. However, I wasn’t even peddling to get to my appointment. Instead I’m just kicking my feet making very slow progress. If I just started peddling and gained some speed, I could reach my destination a lot faster. The bicycle was my potential. The emergency lane was the opportunities that were presented before me. The appointment were my dreams. The peddles represent getting my masters degree. Even though I have a business that has a system in place to obtain my dreams, I still trusted God and went back to school. It wasn’t until I graduated, I truly understood why I took that path. It gave me a different mindset and a larger vision of my purpose. I was struggling developing my strategic plan for ACCEL (http://www.accelut.org), my chamber of commerce for the state of Utah. I knew I wanted to start a chamber and knew it would be a good thing for the state, but now I see it as something greater than a chamber. This organization is designed for everyone to MAKE IT COUNT!! I want to help people realize their full potential and ‘get out of being stuck in traffic and get in the emergency lane.’ Stay tuned in the next couple of months to see what ACCEL is going to be all about. This is my opportunity to share with the community my enthusiasm and vision for the next five years. I started two years ago way below my normal level, and now I am at a level where I’m ready to accept the experiences God is going to give to me. I’m ready to take any challenge or ‘hit’ that comes my way know He won’t give me anything that I can’t handle without His help. I’m going to MAKE MY JOURNEY COUNT!! Are you?
“But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.” -Isa. 40.31